A workshop about how to ask people out, with a creative poetic perspective. Through discussion, poetry writing and crafting we explore rejection, expectations and write poems about how we’d like to be asked out
It can be scary to approach your crush, or even someone you wanna know better as a friend - so lets make the whole thing easier!
Through discussion, poetry games, writing and hands-on crafting, we’ll dive into what holds us back—like the fear of being “creepy” or the uncertainty of someone’s feelings—and confront rejection head-on. Together, we’ll tackle the awkwardness, the overthinking, and even the pitfalls of social media flirtation.
Then we'll work through why it's so hard, figure out the most comfortable way for you to approach such conversations & gain some tools and confidence so next time you fancy the barista, you can tell them (whether that in words or in verse✨)
This will involve a cosy chat & creative sharing about the worries and emotions around dating, you're not alone in feeling them & you don't have to arrive to the workshop confident and brave, there is space for nerves & vulnerability <3
Goals:
- Chatting about our experiences asking people out
- Poetry exercises
- Opening up conversation
- Dealing with the shame associated with asking people out
- Building confidence asking people out
- Being creative
The aim is to leave feeling less alone and to get ready to connect IRL for Pride Month (see AWO's Queer IRL programme)✨
Please message me on outsavvy/email me at urawholeorange@gmail.com if you need a free ticket :)
Venue Details:
- Open friendly vibe
- The bar will be open throughout serving non-alcoholic & alcoholic drinks
- I always lay out some fidget/stim toys to keep any nervous hands occupied
- Low lighting - no flashing
- Low-level background music
- There is a separate section up some stairs, used as a ‘quieter space’ to go to if you need a break.
Lauren (she/her) is an artist, writer, poet, journalist and niche playlist maker. She also runs Lost in the Foxglove, a bi-monthly workshop series which focuses on poetic development and creating meaningful connections across backgrounds/disciplines in an interactive, low-pressure environment.
The main goals being, to break down insecurity, embrace imperfection, and build community along the way. The classes can be a one-off or a chance to build via previous attendance. Think new-pathways, community, candidness, growth, queer-friendly and pure fun.
Kim (they/them) is the founder of A Whole Orange - a matchmaking and events biz that brings you singles/ready to mingles events, workshops on dating & 1 to 1 matchmaking and relationship coaching. AWO events aim to be accessible & low-stress, with lots of touches and adjustments to make meeting new people a bit easier <3