Arthur and I invite you to the next massage exchange workshop for gay and bi men ON THE MASSAGE TABLE. Our gathering takes place in Stanmore, North London, in a private location within a few minutes from the Underground station. Every month we give new ideas, but the structure and topic of the gathering remain the same - connect with another man through a curious, relaxing, sensual and erotic touch. Open to any man with understanding - you get what you give. No age and shape restrictions.
The average age of the group is usually 50+ and the energy is amazing.
It's about giving and receiving.
Try to be clear about your boundaries around intimacy and touch. Maybe - considered as NO!
We are learning and practising to give Sensual and Erotic strokes (or touch) with purpose, intention, consent and pure intentions. It's a very “grey area” for most human beings regardless of gender, age and previous experience. Here we are learning by taking a few steps towards understanding ourselves, our bodies and our beliefs, what is a connection and how to stay sober (responsible) throughout the experience.
Massage on the massage table is available for anybody with or without experience, remember to keep your back erect and straight, don't lock your knees, and keep a soft and fluid posture. It will not be about technique or perfect strokes. You will be judged - how you make a man feel and what he will remember about your touch on the next day!
Please bring. Yourself, your little horny monster, a big heart, a towel (a must) and ankle socks (optional) - the floor can be slippery.
COST & rEFUNDS
A general admission ticket is £40. Includes shower, snacks, fruits, cakes, water, and great company. Full refund 48h before, no transfers or refund afterwards.
REFUND & CANCELLATION
If we don't get 4 participants - the event will be cancelled, and you will get a full refund. The maximum size of the group is 10 participants.
LOCATION AND EXACT ADDRESS
The nearest station is Canons Park. The full address with the confirmation (2 days earlier). Free parking is available.
IMPORTANT! GROUP AGREEMENT
During the introduction, please state if you want to stay within the safe zone. There are three zones, a) no fluids exchange, b) partially, and c) I am comfortable (!) and understanding the risks.
None of the participants bring poppers or any other substance. No extra gear to stand out. Only sobber touch to give and receive.
At least three rounds to give and receive from different participants. First round - connecting through touch. Second, awakening the body and avoiding over-stimulation (save for later). The last round concerns the erotic experience (within the group Agreement & personal boundaries).
No body-to-body (NURU style) moves on the table. (Sitting between the legs is welcome, but at your own risk!)
Massaging rosebuds and caressing bum cheeks is welcome but this isn't for everybody. The most important to follow - no fingering or any penetration attempts. This is the most vulnerable and pleasurable body part that requires special treatment and arrangements.
Closing ritual. The last 20 minutes of the gathering are dedicated to going beyond the ‘official’ part and allowing participants to come close and show some of their talents. This part is nevertheless supervised.
Tantric approach vs. Relaxing massage. The foundation of Tantra is Breath, Sound and Movement. Some participants do not enjoy loud environments and therefore do not enjoy a massage. I had to ask some participants in the past to keep noise to a minimum.
Please feel free to get in touch with me via contact form on this website
Thank you,
Taras and Arthur