Join us for this special Sunday workshop about the joys of lingam massage. Our cocks are gateways to giving and receiving pleasure and this afternoon will be an unashamed celebration of those joys in the safety or shared space. Yet, privacy can become secrecy, especially for when we started to explore our sexual energies. We might have ‘learnt’ to masturbated quickly, worried that we might be caught.
So, an openly shared group experience of mindful and leisurely lingam massage is not just a really fun way to spend an afternoon - and yes, one intention is to have fun! - this workshop might help us to move on from one that past guilt, body and sexual shame, towards greater self-acceptance and openness about ourselves. And beyond even that, the deep pleasures of sharing lingam massage can be way into deeper awareness and exploration of our inner energies. ‘Lingam' and ‘cock’ could be seen as names for the spiritual and sexual aspects of what in Latin is called our penis. Though, to judge from ancient carvings. it seems the Romans also saw the penis as a source of strength, even luck.
Like all Tantric Meetings for Men, we will start with introductions and agreements to ensure we have a safe, consensual and confidential space. We then move into connections through touch followed by a mindful respectful mutual undressing. Our main practice will be to work in pairs, giving and receiving various kinds of cock massage, which includes ‘edging’ - going up to the ‘edge’ of ejaculation but not falling over. (I'd like to mention my indebtedness in those techniques to my teachers, especially Seb Cox, who once ran A-Z of Cock massage workshop in London and Manchester: and Jason Tantra, whose approach and techniques also inspire this workshop).
This workshop involves frontal nudity, so while all Tantric Meetings are suitable for guys new to tantra and those with experience, please contact me if you are unsure about being naked in a group of men or giving and exchanging cock massage (email me steve.hopker@gmail.co, or call/text/WhatsApp me on 07813 371006). Also, while it can be great to learn through working with different men, it's fine if you bring a partner who you want to stay with.
Do note that the penis has the same number of nerve endings flaccid or erect. So, while you may want to be hard all afternoon, it's no issue when erections come and go - you will still receive the same sensations. Also, while there is to invitation to experience ‘edging’ for as long as possible (most men, once they have come, tend to lose sexual energy) there is no shame if you do ejaculate: though I encourage you to hold off as long as you can - and it can be really good to hold on and bring that energy out of the workshop into the rest of your day.
Please bring a sheet, towel, a water bottle, perhaps a sarong or blanket for breaks… and an open mind and heart.
Do note our Terms and Conditions below
I have a NOTAFLOF policy for tickets - No One Turned Away For Lack Of Funds - so do contact me if lack of money is stopping you taking part.
Any questions? - call/WhatsApp/text me on 07813 371006 or email steve.hopker@gmail.com
Location notes: Lord Byron ‘Square’ is actually a [rectangular] light commercial area accessed from West Ashton Street, off Eccles New Road. After the entry gates, turn right, then left into a short cut-de-sac and Pathways is on your right (number 15 with purple paint). It’s quiet on Saturdays with plenty of on-street parking. Pathways is about 10 minutes walk from the Langworthy tram and bus stops. Do call if you need directions.