This expanded four-hour workshop deepens the exploration begun in our first workshops, offering more time, warmth, and privacy for embodied self-connection.
Through guided somatic movement, breathwork, reflection, sound, and optional self-touch practice, participants are invited to explore self-pleasure as a conscious and regulated experience rather than a goal-driven act.
The emphasis is on:
- Nervous system safety
- Choice and consent
- Slowing down
- Relational presence without pressure
This is not group sexual activity. All practices are invitational.
We begin in full circle to establish orientation, agreements, and shared ground. From there, participants are guided into somatic floor-based movement to release tension and settle into body awareness.
A standing discharge practice follows — including rhythmic shaking and optional vocal release — allowing energy to move before returning to stillness.
After a short break, we continue in small groups for reflective sharing, creating safer, more intimate conversations before transitioning into breathwork back in the circle.
The self-touch practice unfolds gradually:
- Beginning individually, in personal space
- Option to use blindfolds to deepen internal awareness
- Optional structured triads for short rounds of self-practice with witnessing
- Clear rotation system and equal time
- No sexual contact between participants
The workshop closes with integration through a guided sound bath, followed by a final circle to ground and complete.
All practices are invitational. Participants may opt out at any time. The structure prioritises nervous-system safety, clarity, and respect.
This workshop is a structured, safe space for men to explore conscious self-pleasure and body awareness. There is no sexual contact between participants. The practices are invitational, designed to help you notice sensations, regulate energy, and connect with your own presence. Witnessing is part of the process: it’s about holding space for yourself and others, not performance or judgment. From the outside, it might look like men's tantra free-for-all. It is not. The purpose here is embodiment, awareness, and integration, not sexual release and is designed specifically for men so that we can hold the work safely and competently.
Open to men of all experience levels — every practice is guided, optional, and rooted in consent, self-awareness, and personal choice.
The workshop takes place in a new private venue offering greater space, warmth, comfort, and discretion, with good parking and transport links.
Limited places to preserve intimacy and safety